Trying to be a good father, a good man…

The divorce was…well, I mean I had issues. Sure. But that was years ago. I did the work. I’m better. I know I am. And I stayed in the game with my kids the whole time. Parent teacher conferences. Soccer. Awards. So why do they seem disconnected to me? Maybe she’s telling them I’m no good. Maybe they can just sense it and it’s too late for me. Maybe they’re too old now. I hope not. I hate this. I love them. Is this hard now because they’re just teenagers and this is, what? Normal? Or am I really the problem? I wouldn’t know how else to fix this if I am.

“In our first session, Will didn’t ask me to tell him the whole story. He didn’t start by asking about my father. All he said was, ‘Tell me something that happened recently with your kids that got you upset.’ And we took off. I could feel a difference in me with the kids that week. And they must have felt something because things were different. Better.”
—Carlos

When you have worked hard to rise out of the ashes of your own wreckage it is hard to let go of imagining that everyone still sees you as you used to be. That’s normal. It makes you feel like you’re not only trying to stay the course but that you fighting your past at the same time. And you may feel that you have to let everyone know that you know how it was and that you’ve got this now. That’s a lot of work, juggling all of that.

Working with me starts right away with letting go of the noise that we hang on to. With that gone, you immediately begin to feel more room to be your best self. Naturally. It’s coming home, but coming home to the authentic Self. It’s simple. Not always easy but by no means impossible. You deserve peace and joy. Come home and reclaim it.

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